{"id":2390,"date":"2009-05-19T00:00:00","date_gmt":"2009-05-18T22:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/new.slovozivota.sk\/2009\/05\/preco-stojime-osamote\/"},"modified":"2019-10-03T02:29:10","modified_gmt":"2019-10-03T00:29:10","slug":"preco-stojime-osamote","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.slovozivota.sk\/en\/2009\/05\/preco-stojime-osamote\/","title":{"rendered":"Pre\u010do stoj\u00edme osamote?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\u017dijeme v spolo\u010dnosti, ktor\u00e1 je ve\u013emi individualisticky zalo\u017een\u00e1. \u013dudia chc\u00fa dosiahnu\u0165 viac a paradoxne dosahuj\u00fa menej, ke\u010f hraj\u00fa na vlastn\u00e9 tri\u010dko. Futbalov\u00e9 mu\u017estv\u00e1 ako Manchester United \u010di Barcelona maj\u00fa vo svojom k\u00e1dri v\u00fdnimo\u010dn\u00e9 osobnosti, ktor\u00e9 z\u00e1rove\u0148 robia v\u0161etko v prospech t\u00edmu. Ke\u010f vieme to\u013eko ve\u013ea o potenci\u00e1li t\u00edmov, pre\u010do niektor\u00ed \u013eudia chc\u00fa napriek tomu pracova\u0165 sami? p\u00fdta sa John Maxwell vo svojej knihe 17 z\u00e1konov t\u00edmovej pr\u00e1ce, ktor\u00e1 v t\u00fdchto d\u0148och vych\u00e1dza vo vydavate\u013estve Slovo \u017eivota Bratislava.<\/p>\n<p>Autor ud\u00e1va nieko\u013eko d\u00f4vodov: Na prvom mieste je to ego. Ako hovor\u00ed Kerry Walls, jeden z \u010dlenov t\u00edmu INJOY: \u201eKe\u010f \u017eongluje\u0161 s viacer\u00fdmi taniermi, nerastie t\u00fdm tvoj talent, rastie t\u00fdm pravdepodobnos\u0165, \u017ee ti niektor\u00fd tanier padne.\u201c Tak\u017ee ot\u00e1zka nie je, \u010di dok\u00e1\u017eeme v\u0161etko urobi\u0165 sami, ale kedy si uvedom\u00edme, \u017ee to nedok\u00e1\u017eeme. Ak chcete urobi\u0165 nie\u010do naozaj ve\u013ek\u00e9, zanechajte svoje ego a pripravte sa na pr\u00e1cu v t\u00edme.<\/p>\n<p>Druh\u00fdm d\u00f4vodom, pre\u010do \u013eudia stoja osamoten\u00ed je neistota. Niektor\u00ed \u013eudia sa c\u00edtia druh\u00fdmi ohrozen\u00ed. Florentsk\u00fd \u0161t\u00e1tnik zo \u0161estn\u00e1steho storo\u010dia Niccolo Machiavelli si pravdepodobne v\u0161imol nie\u010do podobn\u00e9 a pod vplyvom toho nap\u00edsal: \u201ePrvou met\u00f3dou, ako vyhodnoti\u0165 inteligenciu vl\u00e1dcu, je pozrie\u0165 sa na \u013eud\u00ed, ktor\u00ed ho obklopuj\u00fa.\u201c Sk\u00f4r ne\u017e zl\u00fd \u00fasudok alebo nedostatok inteligencie je to naj\u010dastej\u0161ie pr\u00e1ve neistota, ktor\u00e1 sp\u00f4sobuje, \u017ee vodcovia sa obklopia slab\u00fdmi \u013eu\u010fmi. Bu\u010f si chc\u00fa udr\u017ea\u0165 kontrolu nad v\u0161etk\u00fdm, za \u010do s\u00fa zodpovedn\u00ed, alebo sa boja, \u017ee by ich mohol nahradi\u0165 niekto schopnej\u0161\u00ed. V oboch pr\u00edpadoch vodcovia, ktor\u00ed nepodporuj\u00fa t\u00edmov\u00fa pr\u00e1cu, podkop\u00e1vaj\u00fa vlastn\u00fd potenci\u00e1l a maria aj to najlep\u0161ie \u00fasilie \u013eud\u00ed, s ktor\u00fdmi pracuj\u00fa. Pomohla by im rada prezidenta Woodrowa Wilsona: \u201eNemali by sme pou\u017e\u00edva\u0165 len v\u0161etky mozgy, ktor\u00e9 m\u00e1me, ale aj v\u0161etky, ktor\u00e9 si dok\u00e1\u017eeme po\u017ei\u010da\u0165.\u201c<\/p>\n<p>\u010eal\u0161ou prek\u00e1\u017ekou t\u00edmovej pr\u00e1ce je pod\u013ea Maxwella naivita. Poradca John Ghegan m\u00e1 na svojom stole n\u00e1lepku, na ktorej stoj\u00ed: \u201eKeby som mal za\u010da\u0165 odznova, zadov\u00e1\u017eil by som si pomoc.\u201c T\u00e1to pozn\u00e1mka presne vystihuje pocity tretieho typu \u013eud\u00ed, ktor\u00ed nedok\u00e1\u017eu budova\u0165 t\u00edmy. Naivne podce\u0148uj\u00fa n\u00e1ro\u010dnos\u0165 dosahovania ve\u013ek\u00fdch v\u00fdsledkov. Preto sa sna\u017eia urobi\u0165 v\u0161etko sami. S niektor\u00fdmi \u013eu\u010fmi, ktor\u00ed za\u010dn\u00fa v tejto skupine, to napokon dopadne dobre. Zistia, \u017ee ich sny s\u00fa v\u00e4\u010d\u0161ie ako ich schopnosti, uvedomia si, \u017ee svoje ciele nedosiahnu sami a prisp\u00f4sobia sa tomu. Ich prostriedkom na dosahovanie v\u00fdsledkov sa stane t\u00edmov\u00e1 pr\u00e1ca. Ale niektor\u00ed in\u00ed sa t\u00fato pravdu nau\u010dia pr\u00edli\u0161 neskoro a v d\u00f4sledku toho nikdy nedosiahnu svoje ciele. A to je \u0161koda.<\/p>\n<p>Poslednou prek\u00e1\u017ekou v budovan\u00ed t\u00edmov je temperament. Niektor\u00ed \u013eudia nie s\u00fa ve\u013emi spolo\u010densk\u00ed a jednoducho neprem\u00fd\u0161\u013eaj\u00fa tak\u00fdm sp\u00f4sobom, aby budovali t\u00edmy alebo boli ich s\u00fa\u010das\u0165ou. Ke\u010f \u010delia n\u00e1ro\u010dn\u00fdm \u00faloh\u00e1m, nikdy neh\u013eadaj\u00fa pomoc u druh\u00fdch. Ak rob\u00edte v\u0161etko sami a nikdy nespolupracujete s druh\u00fdmi, vytv\u00e1rate ve\u013ek\u00e9 prek\u00e1\u017eky pre svoj potenci\u00e1l. Na \u010doko\u013evek, \u010do m\u00e1 ma\u0165 trval\u00fa hodnotu, treba t\u00edm. Okrem toho aj ten najv\u00e4\u010d\u0161\u00ed introvert na svete sa vie nau\u010di\u0165, ako vyu\u017ei\u0165 v\u00fdhody t\u00edmovej pr\u00e1ce.<\/p>\n<p>Chuck Swindoll nap\u00edsal knihu The Finishing Touch (Dokon\u010duj\u00faci dotyk), v ktorom zhrnul d\u00f4le\u017eitos\u0165 t\u00edmovej pr\u00e1ce. Povedal: Nikto netvor\u00ed cel\u00fd t\u00edm&#8230; Potrebujeme sa navz\u00e1jom. Ty potrebuje\u0161 niekoho a niekto potrebuje teba. Nie sme izolovan\u00e9 ostrovy. Aby sme naplnili svoje \u017eivotn\u00e9 poslanie, potrebujeme oporu a pomoc. Potrebujeme vz\u0165ahy a spr\u00e1vne reakcie. D\u00e1va\u0165 a bra\u0165. Vyzn\u00e1va\u0165 a odp\u00fa\u0161\u0165a\u0165. Na\u010diahnu\u0165 sa, uchopi\u0165 a spo\u013eahn\u00fa\u0165 sa&#8230; Ke\u010f\u017ee nikto z n\u00e1s nie je \u00fapln\u00fd, nez\u00e1visl\u00fd, sebesta\u010dn\u00fd, superschopn\u00fd, v\u0161emocn\u00e1 kapacita, presta\u0148me sa spr\u00e1va\u0165, ako keby sme tak\u00ed boli. \u017divot je dos\u0165 osamel\u00fd aj bez tejto bl\u00e1znivej hry. Hra sa kon\u010d\u00ed. Spojme sa. Pre toho, kto sa sna\u017e\u00ed robi\u0165 v\u0161etko s\u00e1m, sa hra naozaj kon\u010d\u00ed. Ak chcete urobi\u0165 nie\u010do ve\u013ek\u00e9, mus\u00edte sa spoji\u0165 s druh\u00fdmi. Jeden je pr\u00edli\u0161 m\u00e1lo na dosiahnutie ve\u013ek\u00fdch v\u00fdsledkov.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u017dijeme v spolo\u010dnosti, ktor\u00e1 je ve\u013emi individualisticky zalo\u017een\u00e1. \u013dudia chc\u00fa dosiahnu\u0165 viac a paradoxne dosahuj\u00fa menej, ke\u010f hraj\u00fa na vlastn\u00e9 tri\u010dko. 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