{"id":2643,"date":"2012-06-05T07:13:29","date_gmt":"2012-06-05T05:13:29","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/new.slovozivota.sk\/2012\/06\/naucena-bezmocnost-alebo-pojde-to-po-dobrotky-alebo-po-zlotky\/"},"modified":"2019-10-03T02:29:07","modified_gmt":"2019-10-03T00:29:07","slug":"naucena-bezmocnost-alebo-pojde-to-po-dobrotky-alebo-po-zlotky","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.slovozivota.sk\/en\/2012\/06\/naucena-bezmocnost-alebo-pojde-to-po-dobrotky-alebo-po-zlotky\/","title":{"rendered":"Nau\u010den\u00e1 Bezmocnos\u0165, alebo \u201ep\u00f4jde to po dobrotky alebo po zlotky?!\u201c."},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\" alignright size-full wp-image-2642\" src=\"https:\/\/new.slovozivota.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/06\/zamyslenie-angry-little-girl.jpg\" border=\"0\" alt=\"\" align=\"right\" width=\"300\" height=\"215\" \/>Volala sa Barbora. Jej nakr\u00e1tko ostrihan\u00e9 tmav\u00e9 vlasy a nemilosrdn\u00fd poh\u013ead pritom ako si dala ruky v bok, pri\u017em\u00farila o\u010di a povedala: \u201ep\u00f4jde to po dobrotky alebo po zlotky?!\u201c, si pam\u00e4t\u00e1m dodnes. Barbora bola postrach. Nemala z\u013eutovanie a nemilosrdne vykr\u00facala ruky v\u0161etk\u00fdm, ktor\u00ed sa jej odv\u00e1\u017eili postavi\u0165, odporova\u0165, alebo sa len skr\u00e1tka ocitli v zl\u00fa chv\u00ed\u013eu na nespr\u00e1vnom mieste. V\u0161etci \u0161k\u00f4lk\u00e1ri sme z nej mali strach. Jedin\u00fd kto by sa jej mohol postavi\u0165 bol Vladko ale i na toho by bol kurz prinajlep\u0161om 3 ku 1. Ja s\u00e1m som viackr\u00e1t za\u017eil jej: \u201ep\u00f4jde to po dobrotky alebo po zlotky?!\u201c po ktorom, ak jej \u010dlovek neust\u00fapil, nasledoval jedine\u010dn\u00fd chvat vykr\u00fatenia ruky proti ktor\u00e9mu nebolo obrany ani v\u00fdchodiska. Jej neporazite\u013enos\u0165 bola tak\u00e1 jasn\u00e1, \u017ee sa o nej nedalo pochybova\u0165. Jedn\u00e9ho d\u0148a sa v\u0161ak udialo nie\u010do, na \u010do si ve\u013emi jasne spom\u00ednam dodnes. Boli sme na vych\u00e1dzke v horskom parku a hrali sme sa s loptou. A vtedy sa to stalo. Lopta sa odkot\u00fa\u013eala bokom a ke\u010f som k nej pri\u0161iel, \u010dupol si a chcel ju zdvihn\u00fa\u0165, uvedomil som si, \u017ee okrem mojich r\u00fak s\u00fa na lopte e\u0161te nejak\u00e9 in\u00e9 ruky. Zdvihol som zrak a zistil, \u017ee ruky patria Barbore. Bola to patov\u00e1 situ\u00e1cia. Po nieko\u013ek\u00fdch sekund\u00e1ch pre\u0165ahovania sa Barbora zdvihla obo\u010die a\u00a0 roz\u0161\u00edrila nozdry. Vedel som, \u017ee je zle, no bolo u\u017e p\u00edli\u0161 neskoro \u201ep\u00f4jde to po dobrotky alebo po zlotky?!\u201c. V poslednom z\u00e1chvate hrdinstva som vykr\u00edkol z\u00fafal\u00e9 \u201epo zlotky!\u201c a asi sekundu po tom som u\u017e bol v nemilosrdnom chvate nepriate\u013ea. Ako som tak v stave absol\u00fatnej submisie u\u017e len \u010dakal, \u010do sa bude dia\u0165 \u010falej, napadlo mi nie\u010do, na \u010do som dovtedy nikdy nepomyslel. \u201e\u010co ak by som sa sk\u00fasil br\u00e1ni\u0165?\u201c. Ke\u010f\u017ee hor\u0161ie to u\u017e by\u0165 nemohlo, rozhodol som sa urobi\u0165 nie\u010do, \u010do som dovtedy e\u0161te neurobil. Za\u010dal som kl\u00e1s\u0165 odpor. Na moje ve\u013ek\u00e9 prekvapenie som ju pretla\u010dil, vytrhol som sa jej a ako \u010dere\u0161ni\u010dku na torte som ju e\u0161te od seba aj odsotil. Barbora op\u00e4\u0165 zdvihla obo\u010die ale tentokr\u00e1t nozdry od prekvapenia z\u00fa\u017eila. Bolo to obrovsk\u00e9 v\u00ed\u0165azstvo, ktor\u00e9 zmenilo zbytok m\u00f4jho \u0161k\u00f4lk\u00e1rskeho \u017eivota. Od toho d\u0148a som jej \u201ep\u00f4jde to po dobrotky alebo po zlotky?!\u201c nikdy nepo\u010dul.\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Ke\u010f som sa po\u010das m\u00f4jho \u0161t\u00fadia stretol s menom psychol\u00f3ga Martina Seligmana, spomenul som si\u00a0 na moje mal\u00e9 ve\u013ek\u00e9 \u0161k\u00f4lk\u00e1rske probl\u00e9my. Seligman pri svojom v\u00fdskume robil pokusy na psoch, pri\u010dom u nich pozoroval spr\u00e1vanie, ktor\u00e9 nazval nau\u010den\u00e1 bezmocnos\u0165. Rozdelil psov do skup\u00edn a vystavoval ich d\u00e1vke elektrick\u00fdch \u0161okov, pri\u010dom jedna skupina mala mo\u017enos\u0165 (napr\u00edklad stla\u010den\u00edm p\u00e1ky) \u0161oky zastavi\u0165, ale druh\u00e1 skupina ich zastavi\u0165 nemohla. V druhej \u010dasti experimentu, boli tieto skupiny psov testovan\u00e9 v klietke kde mohli unikn\u00fa\u0165 elektrick\u00fdm \u0161okom skokom cez mal\u00fa prek\u00e1\u017eku. V\u00e4\u010d\u0161ina psov zo skupiny, ktor\u00e1 sa predt\u00fdm nau\u010dila, \u017ee ni\u010d \u010do urobili nem\u00e1 vplyv na \u0161oky, si v\u0161ak len pas\u00edvne \u013eahla a k\u0148u\u010dala a aj napriek tomu, \u017ee mohli ve\u013emi jednoducho unikn\u00fa\u0165 sa o to\u00a0 ani nepok\u00fasili.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>U\u010denie je jednou z najd\u00f4le\u017eitej\u0161\u00edch schopnost\u00ed \u010dloveka. Bez neho by pre\u017eitie nebolo mo\u017en\u00e9 a vo v\u0161eobecnosti n\u00e1m ve\u013emi u\u013eah\u010duje \u017eivot. Nane\u0161tastie existuj\u00fa aj zl\u00ed u\u010ditelia. Niekedy sa nau\u010d\u00edme veci, ktor\u00e9 n\u00e1m \u017eivot neu\u013eah\u010dia, ale skomplikuj\u00fa. Diabol je \u017eia\u013e jeden z najlep\u0161\u00edch u\u010dite\u013eov a jeho lekcie s\u00fa ve\u013emi \u013eahko zapam\u00e4tate\u013en\u00e9. Pou\u017e\u00edva \u013eud\u00ed, udalosti, situ\u00e1cie a sk\u00fasenosti, ktor\u00fdmi n\u00e1s chce nau\u010di\u0165 svoje pravdy. Probl\u00e9m je, \u017ee niekdy je \u0165a\u017e\u0161ie sa veci odu\u010di\u0165 ako nau\u010di\u0165, \u017ee falo\u0161n\u00e9 pravdy, ktor\u00e9 n\u00e1s nau\u010dil, n\u00e1m br\u00e1nia nau\u010di\u0165 sa Bo\u017eie skuto\u010dn\u00e9 pravdy. Ke\u010f som nad t\u00fdm prem\u00fd\u0161\u013eal uvedomil som si \u017ee Je\u017ei\u0161 nielen u\u010dil, ale aj od\u00fa\u010dal. V podstate od\u00fa\u010daniu venoval \u010das\u0165 svojej slu\u017eby. Oh\u013eadne viacer\u00fdch oblast\u00ed, ale aj ve\u013emi konkr\u00e9tnych vec\u00ed povedal: \u201ePo\u010duli ste &#8230; , ale ja v\u00e1m hovor\u00edm, &#8230;\u201c.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Mysl\u00edm, \u017ee niektor\u00e9 Bo\u017eie pravdy v na\u0161ich \u017eivotoch nefunguj\u00fa, preto\u017ee sme sa e\u0161te neodu\u010dili star\u00e9 diablove lekcie. Po\u010fme sa teda od\u00fa\u010da\u0165 tieto diablove lekcie, aby sme urobili miesto pre skuto\u010dn\u00fa pravdu, pravdu ktor\u00e1 vyslobodzuje.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Volala sa Barbora. Jej nakr\u00e1tko ostrihan\u00e9 tmav\u00e9 vlasy a nemilosrdn\u00fd poh\u013ead pritom ako si dala ruky v bok, pri\u017em\u00farila o\u010di a povedala: \u201ep\u00f4jde to po dobrotky alebo po zlotky?!\u201c, si [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":2642,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"episode_type":"","audio_file":"","cover_image":"","cover_image_id":"","duration":"","filesize":"","date_recorded":"","explicit":"","block":"","filesize_raw":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[51],"tags":[],"series":[],"class_list":["post-2643","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-blog-clanky"],"episode_featured_image":"https:\/\/www.slovozivota.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/06\/zamyslenie-angry-little-girl.jpg","episode_player_image":"https:\/\/www.slovozivota.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/PodcastSZ-1.jpg","download_link":"","player_link":"","audio_player":false,"episode_data":{"playerMode":"dark","subscribeUrls":[],"rssFeedUrl":"https:\/\/www.slovozivota.sk\/en\/feed\/podcast\/slovo-zivota","embedCode":"<blockquote class=\"wp-embedded-content\" data-secret=\"a5mmvlVo68\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.slovozivota.sk\/en\/2012\/06\/naucena-bezmocnost-alebo-pojde-to-po-dobrotky-alebo-po-zlotky\/\">Nau\u010den\u00e1 Bezmocnos\u0165, alebo \u201ep\u00f4jde to po dobrotky alebo po zlotky?!\u201c.<\/a><\/blockquote><iframe sandbox=\"allow-scripts\" security=\"restricted\" src=\"https:\/\/www.slovozivota.sk\/en\/2012\/06\/naucena-bezmocnost-alebo-pojde-to-po-dobrotky-alebo-po-zlotky\/embed\/#?secret=a5mmvlVo68\" width=\"500\" height=\"350\" title=\"&#8220;Nau\u010den\u00e1 Bezmocnos\u0165, alebo \u201ep\u00f4jde to po dobrotky alebo po zlotky?!\u201c.&#8221; &#8212; Slovo \u017eivota\" data-secret=\"a5mmvlVo68\" frameborder=\"0\" marginwidth=\"0\" marginheight=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\" class=\"wp-embedded-content\"><\/iframe><script type=\"text\/javascript\">\n\/* <![CDATA[ *\/\n\/*! This file is auto-generated *\/\n!function(d,l){\"use strict\";l.querySelector&&d.addEventListener&&\"undefined\"!=typeof URL&&(d.wp=d.wp||{},d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage||(d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage=function(e){var t=e.data;if((t||t.secret||t.message||t.value)&&!\/[^a-zA-Z0-9]\/.test(t.secret)){for(var s,r,n,a=l.querySelectorAll('iframe[data-secret=\"'+t.secret+'\"]'),o=l.querySelectorAll('blockquote[data-secret=\"'+t.secret+'\"]'),c=new RegExp(\"^https?:$\",\"i\"),i=0;i<o.length;i++)o[i].style.display=\"none\";for(i=0;i<a.length;i++)s=a[i],e.source===s.contentWindow&&(s.removeAttribute(\"style\"),\"height\"===t.message?(1e3<(r=parseInt(t.value,10))?r=1e3:~~r<200&&(r=200),s.height=r):\"link\"===t.message&&(r=new URL(s.getAttribute(\"src\")),n=new URL(t.value),c.test(n.protocol))&&n.host===r.host&&l.activeElement===s&&(d.top.location.href=t.value))}},d.addEventListener(\"message\",d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage,!1),l.addEventListener(\"DOMContentLoaded\",function(){for(var e,t,s=l.querySelectorAll(\"iframe.wp-embedded-content\"),r=0;r<s.length;r++)(t=(e=s[r]).getAttribute(\"data-secret\"))||(t=Math.random().toString(36).substring(2,12),e.src+=\"#?secret=\"+t,e.setAttribute(\"data-secret\",t)),e.contentWindow.postMessage({message:\"ready\",secret:t},\"*\")},!1)))}(window,document);\n\/* ]]> *\/\n<\/script>\n"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.slovozivota.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2643","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.slovozivota.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.slovozivota.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.slovozivota.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.slovozivota.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2643"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.slovozivota.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2643\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.slovozivota.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2642"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.slovozivota.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2643"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.slovozivota.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2643"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.slovozivota.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2643"},{"taxonomy":"series","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.slovozivota.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/series?post=2643"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}