V\u00a0ka\u017edom vz\u0165ahu sa vyskytn\u00fa\u00a0chv\u00edle, kedy s\u00fa obe strany presved\u010den\u00e9 o\u00a0tom, \u017ee maj\u00fa svoju pravdu a\u00a0neprip\u00fa\u0161\u0165aj\u00fa si in\u00fa mo\u017enos\u0165. S\u00fa to \u010dastokr\u00e1t drobnosti, mali\u010dkosti, na ktor\u00fdch sa vedia \u201eposeka\u0165\u201c a\u00a0id\u00fa a\u017e do krajnosti, aby dok\u00e1zali, \u017ee maj\u00fa pravdu a\u00a0mohli nakoniec poveda\u0165 to v\u00ed\u0165azn\u00e9, \u201evid\u00ed\u0161, mala som pravdu, ale ty ma nikdy nepo\u010d\u00fava\u0161!\u201c Vtedy nast\u00e1va moment ticha, v\u00a0ktorom d\u00e1vame tomu druh\u00e9mu priestor na to, aby si jasne uvedomil, \u017ee pravdu m\u00e1m zase JA, ostatne tak, ako v\u017edy. Niekedy n\u00e1m n\u00e1\u0161 partner odvrkne a\u00a0prileje olej do oh\u0148a, napr\u00edklad t\u00fdmito slovami: \u201eNo, samozrejme, ty mus\u00ed\u0161 ma\u0165 v\u017edy pravdu!\u201c Po tom v\u00e4\u010d\u0161inou nast\u00e1va tr\u00e1pna pauza a odcudzenie. Ak je svedkom tejto debaty tretia osoba, \u010di u\u017e die\u0165a alebo dospel\u00fd, mo\u017eno si povie, \u201eklasika, zase sa poh\u00e1dali\u201c.<\/p>\n
Diagn\u00f3za je jednoduch\u00e1; ka\u017ed\u00fd si v\u00a0podstate presadzoval s\u00e1m seba, pri\u010dom na konci m\u00e1me v\u00ed\u0165aza, ktor\u00fd si py\u0161ne hladk\u00e1 svoje ego a\u00a0porazen\u00e9ho, ktor\u00e9ho sme pon\u00ed\u017eili a\u00a0zanechali s pocitom menejcennosti a\u00a0neschopnosti. Mysl\u00edm si, \u017ee ka\u017ed\u00fd mi d\u00e1 za pravdu, \u017ee tento sp\u00f4sob komunik\u00e1cie vz\u0165ahy nebuduje, ale na\u0161trbuje. V\u00a0podobn\u00fdch situ\u00e1ci\u00e1ch sa m\u00f4\u017eme ocitn\u00fa\u0165 nielen v na\u0161ich rodin\u00e1ch ale aj v zamestnan\u00ed. Bez oh\u013eadu na to, \u010di sme boli v\u00a0pr\u00e1ve alebo nie, je ve\u013emi d\u00f4le\u017eit\u00e9, aby sme sa spr\u00e1vne zachovali. Bo\u017eie slovo n\u00e1s vyz\u00fdva, aby sme \u201est\u00edhali pokoj s\u00a0ka\u017ed\u00fdm \u010dlovekom\u201c (\u017did 12:14). L\u00e1ska Kristova v\u00a0n\u00e1s preb\u00fdva bohate. Na inom mieste je nap\u00edsan\u00e9 \u201eNiekto hovor\u00ed nerozv\u00e1\u017elive, ako keby bodal me\u010dom, ale jazyk m\u00fadrych je hotov\u00fdm zdrav\u00edm\u201c <\/em>(Pr 12:18).<\/p>\n Zmena v\u00a0na\u0161om spr\u00e1van\u00ed v\u0161ak neprich\u00e1dza sama od seba. Za\u010diatok zmeny nast\u00e1va uvedomen\u00edm si vlastnej slabosti a\u00a0rozhodnut\u00edm reagova\u0165 inak, ne\u017e sme zvyknut\u00ed; odmietni znova sadn\u00fa\u0165 poku\u0161eniu na lep a\u00a0prehltni svoju p\u00fdchu! Dobr\u00fdm postojom je, ak vieme aspo\u0148 pripusti\u0165, \u017ee sa m\u00f4\u017eeme aj m\u00fdli\u0165. Pre niekoho je to mo\u017eno prekvapuj\u00face, no samozrejme sa m\u00f4\u017ee sta\u0165, \u017ee napriek tomu, \u017ee je \u00faprimne presved\u010den\u00fd o\u00a0tom, \u017ee m\u00e1 pravdu, m\u00f4\u017ee sa \u00faprimne m\u00fdli\u0165!<\/p>\n Je\u017ei\u0161 je na\u0161im vzorom, ktor\u00e9ho nasledujeme a\u00a0chceme by\u0165 de\u0148 za d\u0148om viac podobn\u00ed jemu. To je v\u00fdborn\u00e9, no treba si uvedomi\u0165, \u017ee Je\u017ei\u0161 bol predov\u0161etk\u00fdm nosite\u013eom pokoja, l\u00e1sky, uzdravenia a\u00a0porozumenia. P\u00edsmo o\u00a0\u0148om hovor\u00ed, \u017ee je \u201e\u017eiad\u00facny\u201c pre v\u0161etky n\u00e1rody (Hag 2:7) \u2013 ka\u017ed\u00e9mu bolo a\u00a0st\u00e1le je dobre v\u00a0Jeho pr\u00edtomnosti.<\/p>\n Na\u0161a identita a\u00a0hodnota nespo\u010d\u00edva v\u00a0tom, \u010di v\u00a0danej situ\u00e1cii pravdu m\u00e1me alebo nie, ale spo\u010d\u00edva v\u00a0Kristovi. Ke\u010f si pevne zakorenen\u00fd a\u00a0zasaden\u00fd v\u00a0Kristovi, za\u010dne\u0161 si by\u0165 viac vedom\u00fd toho, \u017ee tvoja hodnota je omnoho v\u00e4\u010d\u0161ia ne\u017e si si myslel. Nebude\u0161 ju potom odv\u00e1dza\u0165 od toho, \u010di si mal pravdu v\u00a0rozhovore o relat\u00edvne\u00a0nepodstatn\u00fdch drobnostiach \u017eivota a\u00a0kone\u010dne za\u010dne\u0161 za\u017e\u00edva\u0165 slobodu, ktor\u00fa ti Kristus vydobyl na kr\u00ed\u017ei.<\/p>\n Si \u010dlovekom, ktor\u00fd v\u017edy mus\u00ed ma\u0165 posledn\u00e9 slovo?<\/p>\n Ak \u00e1no, potom sa modli k\u00a0Bohu a\u00a0pros ho, aby \u0165a zbavil p\u00fdchy a\u00a0t\u00fa\u017eby pokori\u0165 druh\u00fdch. O\u00a0\u010do lep\u0161ie je radova\u0165 sa z\u00a0Bo\u017eej l\u00e1sky a\u00a0slobodne milova\u0165 t\u00fdch, za ktor\u00fdch Kristus zaplatil t\u00fa najvy\u0161\u0161iu cenu. Boh \u0165a bude testova\u0165 a\u00a0nezabudni, \u017ee to bude hlavne v\u00a0oblasti vz\u0165ahov s tvojimi najbli\u017e\u0161\u00edmi.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" V\u00a0ka\u017edom vz\u0165ahu sa vyskytn\u00fa\u00a0chv\u00edle, kedy s\u00fa obe strany presved\u010den\u00e9 o\u00a0tom, \u017ee maj\u00fa svoju pravdu a\u00a0neprip\u00fa\u0161\u0165aj\u00fa si in\u00fa mo\u017enos\u0165. S\u00fa to \u010dastokr\u00e1t drobnosti, mali\u010dkosti, na ktor\u00fdch sa vedia \u201eposeka\u0165\u201c a\u00a0id\u00fa a\u017e […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"episode_type":"","audio_file":"","cover_image":"","cover_image_id":"","duration":"","filesize":"","date_recorded":"","explicit":"","block":"","filesize_raw":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[51],"tags":[],"series":[],"class_list":["post-2801","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-blog-clanky"],"episode_featured_image":false,"episode_player_image":"https:\/\/www.slovozivota.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/PodcastSZ-1.jpg","download_link":"","player_link":"","audio_player":false,"episode_data":{"playerMode":"dark","subscribeUrls":[],"rssFeedUrl":"https:\/\/www.slovozivota.sk\/en\/feed\/podcast\/slovo-zivota","embedCode":"Mysl\u00ed\u0161 si, \u017ee mus\u00ed\u0161 ma\u0165 v\u017edy pravdu?<\/a><\/blockquote>